I am a woman who wears hijab. Men did not make the rules. God did. And we follow them in obedience to God. Our hijab has nothing to do with men. We do not wear it to show if we are married or not. We do not wear it in relation to men at all. The idea we wear it to save men from *being overwhelmed by our sexuality* is wrong and a common misconception. I have written a few articles here on Medium about the subject if you wish to know more. But hijab has nothing to do with men telling us to wear it.