I dont know why some people are saying this is bad advice. All are excellent. I have never understood the idea of "never having secrets" with a partner. Humans should be allowed to have their own private things/thoughts. Plus, some secrets are only shared to make the secret keeper feel better but ultimately hurt the partner they shared them with. Why do that? It is selfish, if you ask me. Some secrets are my own private joy and others are my own private hell. Either way, they will remain private and should for the good of the relationship. As well as for my own good and that of my husband.

Excellent article!